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If you're interested in trying pegging for the first time, you're not alone.
In the last couple years, pegging is a topic that people have been discussing a bit more openly. In fact, when Abbi pegged a guy on Broad City it helped to further move pegging even more so into the spotlight or, at the very least, out of the far reaches of the Earth.
However, with a little bit of finesse you can finally find the nerve to ask your partner if you could try pegging. Here are seven ways to ask your partner if you could try pegging. Whether you choose to bring up pegging over a shrimp cocktail at your favorite restaurant or during pillow talk, you need to start somewhere.
Before you can ask someone anything at all, you need to start with a conversation. For all you know, your partner might not even be familiar with the term, so you tell them that you want to try it, they agree, then you whip out a dildo and a harness, and suddenly you have yourself an awkward situation.
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Once you brought up the conversation in a casual manner, ask them what they think about it. Relationships are about communicationand giving and taking in equal parts.
So give them the chance to speak and listen. No matter how your partner responds, either in the positive or negative, be honest about your feelings on pegging.
You might find that if you honestly share your opinions, your partner might alter their thoughts a bit. Whatever the reason, be clear and honest with your partner about why you want to do it.
Life, off script
As is the case with many sexual acts, there are a lot of myths surrounding pegging. Like it's going to hurt, if a man likes it then he's gay, a woman, because she's on the giving end, derives no pleasure, among other fallacies.
In addressing these myths, you're more likely to put a lot of the concerns to bed. If you left the subject open for further discussion, then give your partner time, but circle back eventually.
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